Rushing is just waiting faster.
With thanks to Robert Heinlein.
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If your last desire was to be free of your desires,
You would still desire,
And you would not be free of them.
Maybe it’s not death that scares you
But the thought of not having really lived.
Death takes us all in the end;
Once you truly accept this ultimate truth
It’s more a question about what to do with your life.
Or put another way;
You accept that you’re not here forever
So are you really living whilst you can?
Or, reiterated yet again,
Are you living in such a way
That you’re more afraid of not living
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You built your accomplishments
And your life
On the works of countless people who came before you.
And when you are dead
Perhaps you will be awarded the honour
Of others building their achievements on your work.
It is not a matter of standing on the shoulders of giants
It’s a matter of standing on the shoulders of thousands upon thousands of people
Over thousands of thousands of years.
Culture and science,
That is to say human achievements,
No one can really claim credit for doing a thing on their own
Because they built upon the achievements and groundwork
Of the people who came before them;
All the way back to the first monkey to link cause and effect
Or the first caveman to scrawl simple arithmetic on the floor.
For example, anyone who creates a billion dollar app
Leverages hundreds of years of physics, and decades of computer science
(Amongst other things)
Going all the way back from the people who invented the coding language used to build the app
And the first folks to lay down the formal mathematics we use to build a computer.
The same with music;
The now famous musician who writes a hit song
Has to give credit to the countless number of people
Who developed the linguistic structure in which he or she has written the lyrics
The musical structure in which harmonic, melodic and rhythmic parts of the music combine
And the recording technology in which he or she was able to capture his or her work.
In your achievements
Perhaps you can acknowledge that
You are a link in a great chain
And that you are helping to build this great thing
That we call human knowledge (or human culture) together.
“If we knew what it was we were doing, it would not be called research, would it?” – Albert Einstein
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Most people (but not all people)
Don’t want to know about your problems
As they are far too busy with their own.
Helping another person with their problems
Can actually help you to take your mind off of your own.
There is no ‘secret to being happy’
But helping other people is one of the things that has contributed most to my happiness.
It’s something I wish someone had told me in those days long ago when I was very depressed.
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Relationships should not be a trade-off between one’s personal integrity and the avoidance of loneliness.
Having trouble embracing the idea of ‘less’?
It may be down to how you think about less.
An emphasis on less should focus on less of the bad, as a means to get more of the good.
Less time spent on the unnecessary,
Less money spent on stuff you don’t really need.
In return, more time to spend on the activities and people you love
More energy to devote to the people and things you love.
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The Tao exists before you discover it.
The Tao exists after you forget it.
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Almost everything is valuable to someone.
So, if a thing is not valuable to you anymore,
Then why not make sure it goes to someone who will value it?
This way, someone will always find a use for a thing
And we will never have things that are not useful (or beautiful) to us.
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